Motherhood and
Family Unity
Church Historian Sister Annette Barber
Good morning brothers and sisters. It is a pleasure
to speak to you for a few minutes today. I have been asked to speak to
you on Motherhood and Family Unity. In the book of Mormon 1st Nephi verse 1 we read “ I
Nephi, having been born of goodly parents, therefore I was taught somewhat in
all the learning of my father" Nephi says in all the learning of
my father, indeed I think we can insert there and my mother. Also in the book of Mormon we have the story of the 2000
young men in Alma 26; 35-36 it reads “yea, they had been taught by their mothers,
that if they did not doubt, that God would deliver them, and they rehearsed
unto me the words of their mothers, saying, we do not doubt our mothers knew”.
So what are the things that we as mothers should be
teaching our children. To live the gospel of Jesus Christ, and to love one
another; to help each other. To be kind to each other. We as sisters have
been blessed with compassion. We take on the nurturing role and consequently do
most of the teaching. We are there when the opportunity comes up most often to
give the lesson. I was at the prophet’s house a few weeks ago and his
youngest son Leif was messing with things that he should not have been
touching, his mother had said to him not to mess with these things 3 times
already, he proceeded to mess with things again and his mother tapped him on
the hand and said “No”. At this point the prophet’s middle son Leo said “mummy
you smacked Leif”. To which his mom said “No I did not smack Leif, I tapped his
hand to say that he was not to mess with things”. That to me was an
excellent lesson for two little boys.
My husband and I have had the blessings of raising 8
children. They did NOT come with instructions, sometimes we got things
right, sometimes we got things wrong. We did our best and if I say so
myself. I think they turned out pretty good. In the book of Jaraneck chapter 1, verses 1-2 we
read. “I have been taught the gospel of the Christ and the almighty God by my
father and mother. But it is from my mother that I have learnt a greater
understanding of humility, respect and love and it is to her that I give thanks
for the man I am today”. Wouldn’t it be nice if our children could say the same
about us. We teach our children as best we can, it is not always easy when you
have a number of people living together with different personalities. But
if we strive to keep the commandment, pray together, hold family home evenings,
hopefully we can stay together. In the bible Proverbs 22; 6 says “Train up a child in the way he
should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it”.
I leave these thoughts with you.
In the Name of Jesus
Christ. Amen.
ADULTERY
AND FORNICATION
Third Elder & Standing Apostle Peter C. Barber
From previous sermons we have learned that our Farther in
Heaven is governed by eternal laws. He does not change. He is the same
yesterday, today, forever. We can refer to these laws as His statues. The most
serious violations of these laws can be found and contained in the Ten Commandments.
We read in Exodus 20:7-17.
7 Thou shalt not take the name of the LORD thy God
in vain; for the LORD will not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain.
8 Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy.
9 Six days shalt thou labour, and do all thy work:
10 But the seventh day is the Sabbath of the LORD
thy God: in it thou shalt not do any work, thou, nor thy son, nor thy daughter,
thy manservant, nor thy maidservant, nor thy cattle, nor thy stranger that is
within thy gates:
11 For in six days the LORD made heaven and earth,
the sea, and all that in them is, and rested the seventh day: wherefore the
LORD blessed the Sabbath day, and hallowed it.
12 Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days
may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.
13 Thou shalt not kill.
14 Thou shalt not commit adultery.
15 Thou shalt not steal.
16 Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy
neighbour.
17 Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou
shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant,
nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's.
The Lord is informing us that murder, and improper sexual
involvement or practice are both unacceptable uses of the power of life, and
are more serious than other sins except denial of the Holy Ghost. The penalty
for adultery in the days of ancient Israel is found in Leviticus 20:10 where it
says:- 'And the man that committeth adultery with another man's wife, even he
that committeth adultery with his neighbour's wife, the adulterer and the
adulteress shall surely be put to death'.
Again we read in the New Testament what the Lord has to
say concerning these sins when we read 1 Corinthians 6:9 - 10 when it says: 'Know
ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not
deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate,
nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor
drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God'.
In the Book of Mormon Alma counsels his son Corianton
about the sins of morality. We read in the book of Alma in chapter 39:1-12:- 'AND
now, my son, I have somewhat more to say unto thee than what I said unto thy
brother; for behold, have ye not observed the steadiness of thy brother, his
faithfulness, and his diligence in keeping the commandments of God?
Behold, has he not set a good example for thee? For thou didst not give so much
heed unto my words as did thy brother, among the people of the Zoramites.
Now this is what I have against thee; thou didst go on unto boasting in thy
strength and thy wisdom. And this is not all, my son. Thou didst do that
which was grievous unto me; for thou didst forsake the ministry, and did go
over into the land
of Siron among the
borders of the Lamanites, after the harlot Isabel. Yea, she did steal away the
hearts of many; but this was no excuse for thee, my son. Thou shouldst
have tended to the ministry wherewith thou wast entrusted. Know ye not, my son,
that these things are an abomination in the sight of the Lord; yea, most
abominable above all sins save it be the shedding of innocent blood or denying
the Holy Ghost? For behold, if ye deny the Holy Ghost when it once has had
place in you, and ye know that ye deny it, behold, this is a sin which is
unpardonable; yea, and whosoever murdereth against the light and knowledge of
God, it is not easy for him to obtain forgiveness; yea, I say unto you, my son,
that it is not easy for him to obtain a forgiveness. And now, my son, I would
to God that ye had not been guilty of so great a crime. I would not dwell
upon your crimes, to harrow up your soul, if it were not for your good. But
behold, ye cannot hide your crimes from God; and except ye repent they will
stand as a testimony against you at the last day. Now my son, I would that ye
should repent and forsake your sins, and go no more after the lusts of your
eyes, but cross yourself in all these things; for except ye do this ye can in
nowise inherit the kingdom of God. Oh, remember, and take it upon you,
and cross yourself in these things. And I command you to take it upon you to
counsel with your elder brothers in your undertakings; for behold, thou art in
thy youth, and ye stand in need to be nourished by your brothers. And
give heed to their counsel. Suffer not yourself to be led away by any vain or
foolish thing; suffer not the devil to lead away your heart again after those
wicked harlots. Behold, O my son, how great iniquity ye brought
upon the Zoramites; for when they saw your conduct they would not believe in my
words. And now the Spirit of the Lord doth say unto me: Command thy children to
do good, lest they lead away the hearts of many people to destruction;
therefore I command you, my son, in the fear of God, that ye refrain from your
iniquities'.
Today in this generation the Lord has informed us of the
penalty for those who do not repent of these moral sins. In the Doctrine and
Covenants in section 42:24 - 26 the Lord speaks to the church and counsels them
concerning certain sins:- 'Thou shalt not commit adultery; and he that
committeth adultery, and repenteth not, shall be cast out. But he that has
committed adultery and repents with all his heart, and forsaketh it, and doeth
it no more, thou shalt forgive; But if he doeth it again, he shall not be
forgiven, but shall be cast out'.
In closing on this subject we can look to Paul the
Apostle as he addressed the Ephesians on this very matter knowing how the sin
of the people was great he counselled them saying in chapter 5:28 - 33) 'So
ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his
wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth
and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body,
of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and
mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This
is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless
let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the
wife see that she reverence her husband'.
As we increase in faith, respect, and love the laws that
the gospel requires of all of us becomes easy for us to live. We become a more
contented, and holy members of His church. Today here in this General Assembly
we grasp at the secure message spoken of
by the Prophet, that God speaks today as he did anciently, through prophets
like our very own. He is mindful of us, He loves us, He has restored his church
and the fullness of his gospel built upon the solid foundation laid by the
Prophet Joseph Smith. How the world needs a prophet to lead and guide it in
these troubled times. I testify that we have such a prophet. He sits in front
of me as I speak in this General Assembly. He sits as the First Elder of the
Church and also as a Prophet, Seer, Revelator and Translator over The Latter
Day Church of Jesus Christ, which stands as the Lord’s church and kingdom here
on earth today. Now we know what is expected of us and my talk today is an
example of what the Lord expects of us.
In The Name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Teaching the Gospel
to Children
Second Elder & tanding Apostle Philip A. Gill
The Lord has
prompted us to teach the Gospel to our children in the home. He has said“inasmuch as parents have children in the church we are
commanded to help them understand the doctrines of the gospel. Faith in Christ,
Baptism, and the gift of the Holy Ghost. If
we fail in this regard the sin be upon the heads of the parents. And they shall
also teach their children to pray and to walk uprightly before the Lord" .
Parents should teach with kindness and love, remembering the apostle Paul’s
counsel to and I quote “bring their
children up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4).
Families in our
society present a serious yet interesting contrast. Generally families have
material and social advantages as great as any generation as ever had. Most
families have material goods and luxuries unknown to previous generations. Most
have greater expectations for a longer life. Most families have unparalleled
opportunities for education, leisure, entertainment and recreation. In this
affluent society people might think that families would be happy and trouble
free, However, as of 1999 marriages were more likely to end by divorce than by
death. CRIME- The arrest rate among juveniles nearly tripled in the decades 2000
to 2010. Government dependence in 2008 more than one child in eight was raised
on government welfare. Births to unmarried women in 2000 five times more
children were born outside marriage than in 1960 just illustrating how far we
have fallen than how far we have risen in modern times when it comes to family
cohesion and togetherness, this is a sign that the Lord and religion has left
the home and Satan has found a comfortable place to live.
What is the answer
to this attack? Family scripture study. We should study the scriptures as a
family. Parents should gather their children together at a regular time to
study read and discuss the scriptures. Each family member who can read should
have an opportunity to read the scriptures. Prayer also plays its part. Each of
our children should be encouraged to pray vocally in private to their Father in
Heaven, he loves us and wants to help all his children. Outward expressions of
gratitude to our Father in Heaven should be encouraged, such as blessing the
food and family prayers. Bedtime stories with children's participation is a
good activity to be actively encouraged.
Children have a
faith that is ready to go, all we need to adopt is a supportive and loving
environment. We need to teach the gospel as a life plan not a series of
unlinked morality plays. Churches have told children tons of good stories , but
have we really told them the story. There’s this huge story with at its core
four major parts, CREATION, FALL,
REDEMPTION, AND RESTORATION. We teach these in the Latter Day Church. We hope you will too, for
without them the family unit and the lives of our children will be left open to
the buffetings of Satan and our children will have no basis to build a cohesive
testimony that will carry them through to their adult lives. We have a living
breathing prophet, Matthew Gill who talks and walks with the Saviour and he
delivers deity’s messages to us. Let us tell our children of this great message
that the Prophet has to share, let him be the example to us and our families.
Finally we must
learn to play and have fun with our children, Family activities can, and do
promote love and harmony. Children will be more willing to listen to a friend
than a stranger so let us amalgamate the two. A child’s parent should try to be
that child's best friend. "Train up
a child in the way he should go; and when he is old, he will not depart from
it". (Proverbs 22: 6 ).
This great scripture says train up your children it doesn’t say leave them to
their own devices. So as parents we have a duty to our children and we have a
duty to love the, to enjoy them and also to train them in the ways of the Lord.
let us make our latter Day homes places of love, friendship and service to our
children.
Today my son stands
at the head of the Lord
church. He sits as a
Prophet, Seer, Revelator and Translator. I would like to think that his mother
and I played some part in his eventual call from God. I stand as a Father today
proud that I serve my Son knowing that he received his gospel education from
his Father and Mother and now he stands at the head of the church. In closing
then, i know how important it is to teach children correct principles because
for me it is an ever present presence in my life.
In The Name of
Jesus Christ. Amen.